Wow, firstly yippee ! how exciting!!
Hope you are still enjoying the moment, perhaps celebrating with friends and family or wanting to keep it quiet for a little while longer, so just the 2 of you can enjoy the moment. There is no right or wrong way, you need to do what is right for you. Then when the celebrations subside, you will go into the planning mode. This is where the stress can build, but it really doesn’t need to!
Firstly take a breath. Communication is key, you and your partner need to talk about the kind of wedding you would like, a big party, small and intimate, what venue ? in a hotel, in a field ? Don’t forget friends and family, as much as you love them, they may try to persuade you to go a route that you do not want, please remember that you are only planning to do this once, so it needs to be the way you want it.
Today there are so many choices, but firstly you need to know if you are on the same page, or if you need to make some compromises ?! Maybe start with a date even if just a month or year then build from there. Going back to compromises, should either of you need to make compromises….possibly not. With a Celebrant led Wedding you get to make the choices, there are no restrictions !!!!!! Maybe we can plan a day that suits you both covering both of your wishes, incorporating some of the visions that you each have, now how special would that be !
Once you have a date why not get in touch with me for a free informal chat. We can go over both your visions and see if we can create a personailsed ceremony that is as special as the both of you are to each other.
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